Would you be mad if your spouse burned a CD of his fave music for her & emails her often?

Would you be mad if your spouse burned a CD of his fave music for her %26amp; emails her often? He doesn't know I know this. She didn't ask for the CD, he just gave it to her, although he knows she likes this type of music. The emails aren't flirty, but they're frequent %26amp; even from home occasionally. They work together. He doesn't know I know about the emails either.





Would you be mad if your spouse burned a CD of his fave music for her %26amp; emails her often?
My advice:





Check yourself... there is something you are not doing that is making him look for a connection elsewhere. Are you being mean? moody? jerk? Try flirting with him, kiss your husband just to kiss him (I'm guessing you don't or rarely do this)





He is looking for validation and attention elsewhere. Check yourself and give it to him and watch those emails stop fast.





PS: I wouldn't out him on the matter. Just let it go, find the problem and fix it. If you out yourself he will never trust you again. The more attention you pay him as in (important to you, sexy to you, lover to you) the quicker he will dump the idea of the new girl.Would you be mad if your spouse burned a CD of his fave music for her %26amp; emails her often?
No I wouldn't be mad, and actually I don't see a problem.


The exchange of messages and sharing of music between friends is a common healthy way to nurture a friendship. There is nothing to suggest it is anything more than that. You have obviously read his emails seeing as you know they weren't flirty, so evidently there is nothing in the content of them that gives you cause for alarm. You note that ';they're frequent %26amp; even from home occasionally'; ... your spouse and this lady are obviously good friends then. Please don't let any unfounded jealousy ruin it for them. You have nothing to be mad about if all he's doing is sending emails and music to his friend, who just happens to be female. Ask him about it if it troubles you, but don't accuse him of anything - I seriously don't think there's anything improper going on.
Depends, if he knew this was not the behavior I approve of and did it anyway then yes I would be mad... Otherwise I wouldn't be mad, but I would be asking why he is doing it and then express that this kind of behavior really upsets me and I would very much like for him to stop.. If he didn't then I would be very upset and he would be risking the relationship over some other woman...
Yes, I'd be mad. My first question to my husband would be WHY is he doing this for her and WHY is he talking to her so much? Sure, there may not be anything going on but regardless I find this very disrespectful for him to not be open about it. Why don't you approach him about this?
No
No. I'm not an insecure wuss.
well, do you think he;d be mad? yes, i would.