How do you remain faithful to your spouse?

I am married to a lovely wife. Before we got marry, she had an attractive body,but she got sick.Now from the neck down she is not that appealing to me. Her breast sag, she have a stomach and she is not that good in bed. But I still married her. But now I find myself going to peepshows, looking at adult magazines, and lusting after other woman to satisfied my needs, but I feel guiltly doing this stuff. How do you remain faithful?How do you remain faithful to your spouse?
If you really want to remain faithful, think back and remind yourself why did you marry her. Good looks and attractive body are not gonna take you very far, cos everyone grows old and 'ugly' someday. If she's such a lovely women as you mentioned, remember why you love her.





Ps. Not good in bed? Guide her!How do you remain faithful to your spouse?
And you, I suppose, have gained NO weight since you were married? When you feel like cheating...imagine how much you would be hurting your wife..does she deserve it? Also, imagine how you would feel if she were cheating on you. Last of all decide if a roll in the hay is worth losing your wife.
I haven't been there yet, but I have seen how some older friends of mine cope with it. They go to strip clubs and every now and then they get a prostitute. That's not exactly faithful, I know - but what she doesn't know can't hurt her. The key to having a successful marriage is NOT to get involved with someone else. That's why prostitutes are ok - they only want your cash, not your entire life.
I am really disgusted by the answer that gave advice to see a prostitute and said that ';what your wife doesn't know can't hurt her';.





This is FALSE! It CAN and most likely will. Not only that but it will hurt you and your relationship unless you have NO conscience whatsoever!





You must consider that there are diseases out in the general population, and as far as chances to obtain one they go up exponentially. The fact that a prostitute has DOZENS if not HUNDREDS of ';partners'; oughtta SCARE the LIVING HELL out of you!!!!!!!





Are you REALLY turned on by the thought of putting your penis into a woman where you might be number 5 for the DAY!?!?! How about the thoughts of the other mens possible ';leavings';...Ugh...that's REALLY a turn-on, huh???





You would be NUTS to think about screwing a prostitute. Take matters into your own hands-literally!





Ask your wife a question here and there and see where she is at with all this. Maybe she has the same feelings (about your level of attractiveness)-how would you feel if she risked both of your health statuses and the trust of your entire relationship? Would what you didn't know possibly hurt you? What if you found out that she had slept with another sex partner or several?





I commend your thoughts on staying faithful-just keep your vows. You expect her to, don't you?





What is your reference for her not being good in bed? Was she? How many women have you been with? Why did you marry this one?





I hope you realized that the good does come with the bad and that no person stays at their best physical shape (unless they die in their prime).





You don't act on EVERY impulse you have, correct? Then don't act on this bad one either!