Cheating is the ultimate betrayal.The pain is inconsolable and changes a person permanently.Why do people on Yahoo Answers get angry when someone says they cheated on their spouse?
I don't know why it is just women that get angry but I do know that people get upset because it bring up old residue from some of the things that might have happened to them. Pain is a special thing you can not stop it from coming to the front and out. Even old pain. Some people handle it better than others.
The only times when a woman can cheat on her spouse is:
- She realized she married too early.
- She realized that the spouse was ';all talk'; and promised her everything and after getting married, realized he was nothing like he said he was.
- He has cheated on her before.
- He is empathatic towards her.
- He beats her.
- He's lame and completely out of her league.
- He makes MUCH less money than her, AND he's lame, AND he's not good looking, AND he doesn't have much of a good heart.
other than that, its pretty messed up thing to do.
It's empathy for the spouse who has been cheated on and against the breakdown of morality/respect/the marriage vows.
Also, many women here have been cheated on...I have no personalexperience with it but I can just imagine what an emotional sucker punch it is...good luck.
Because people like to be quick to judge others. I know, it doesn't make sense to me either. It's sort of like going to your mother when you have this sort of problem. What will she tell you? ';It's wrong.'; When you try to explain that there's a reason for what you're feeling, she's going to say, ';It's still wrong!'; *LOL* Give me concrete reasons and then we'll talk, right?
There are no black and white answers in this world. Everyone has their own experiences and we all have to learn the hard way at times. I just hope that someone can learn from what I've been through, and I do my best not to judge as often as possible.
cuz its messed up how peop[le cheat and expect it to be okay. say im sorry and their spouse just takes them back like its nothting. cheaters are sick. i have been cheated on by 2 women. that i loved dearly. i am just fed up right now with cheaters. once a cheater always a cheater. thats my motto! no second chances and drinking is not an excuse! no one belives in morals anymore and thats y i get mad.
Because they've never been in either situation. That's a good thing, I applaud them. But it's easy to judge them when they haven't experienced the hurt and loneliness of a bad relationship. The world unfortunately isn't just black and white. There are shades of grey. Hope this helps....
I only get upset when they are stupid about it and think that the other person deserved it. No one ever deserves to be cheated on and it's so freaking hard to find a decent person these days it's aggravating to see some one treat people they supposedly love that way.
I've been cheated on and cheaters deserve all the bad crap that life can offer. Cheaters are scumbag losers.
By the way, look up the rules about posting answers that are opinion. They are not allowed... Just stating the fact.
because cheating is disgusting and gutless.
i think we all put ourselves in the other's position and then we get really upset about it. its not fair on them and we hate the thought of that happening to us.
They probably knows what it feels like to be cheated on and are still angry themselves. Cheating hurts everyone, even the cheaters. It's amazing how many selfish people there are in the world.
Because the Bible says it's not right and you must be doing it if it seems to bother you that people say bad things about it.
because it is wrong... cheating is a horrible thing. some people deserve to hear they are a horrible person and maybe they will think and hopefully someday change from their ways.
They're judgmental. They have never walked a mile in other peoples shoes so it's easy to say horrible things to people that shouldn't be said.
Probably cause they been through it and they flashback so that's why they get bent out of shape.
The feminine side comes out which includes DEFENSIVE!!!
would like it if you had a boyfriend or a husband who cheated on a woman who he loves more?
Because it brings back painful memories
Some people don't have class and they think they have the right to judge.
Because they are paranoid
I hear you. I mean it is just in our nature to cheat. We are like chimpanzees with houses and cars and cell phones.
I asked the same question...... you'd think you cheated on THEM the way they act huh? lol
Because it's wrong.
it is wrong.. and they picture it happening to them.
becuz it would hurt so much. and yes it is wrong-.-
maybe they're too uptight
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