Anytime your lady spouse gets upset should you apologize then explain yourself?

Should you apologize for everything even if it seems small to you if your spouse gets upset or is this being a wuss and creating a unstable dynamic.Anytime your lady spouse gets upset should you apologize then explain yourself?
Marriage is about loving. It's not a battle ground. If your spouse is upset there must be a reason and, if you love her, you should be interested in helping deal with what is troubling her. Acknowledge her pain and if you do not understand the reason ask her to explain. And don't get defensive or adversarial. Listen attentively without interrupting, what might be small to you may be larger for her. We all have different things that annoy us or cause us to feel neglected or unloved. If it turns out that you have done or said anything to cause her upset apologise right away. The aim in marriage is unity and harmony on what is a mysterious journey of ever deepening love.Anytime your lady spouse gets upset should you apologize then explain yourself?
Not if you want your marriage to last. I wouldn't call it being a wuss, sounds like you either can't handle confrontation so you would rather sweep it under the rug (doesn't resolve the issue) or you just want her to shut up. NO way to communicate and eventually you will end up one bitter controlled man. It may seem like small issues now but it will get larger. Try TALKING about what made her upset to begin with...and hopefully you can come to a productive resolution...mind you this is my advice with the thought you are both ok with being wrong sometimes and agree to disagree...good luck with that..it takes a mature and seasoned relationship!
I will take it your a man and asking this question.





Yes. Do not apologize for everything. Why should you?





We are all human and make mistakes, some we can't help.





This person is a control freak and a person who provides mental punishment. You will be miserable in this relationship. Move on my friend....do it now.
Just apologize that she's upset, and don't give her an explanation( a friggen excuse if you ask me) unless she asks for one. Instead, give her a back rub and just keep your lips zipped unless its : '; let's talk about this, how can we make this work better next time?';
.....a wuss? unstable dynamic? sounds like your a douche. Maybe you NEED to apologize to her.
Just apologize and shut up. Even if she's wrong, she's right. The sooner you realize this, the easier your life will be. She can't penetrate your mind you know. lol.
Yes. The man should always apologize cause it's always his fault.
No way don't play into her crap it will never end then.