What would you do if you're trying your best to be supportive of your spouse but things aren't working out?

Four years ago my spouse lost his job and I've been footing 90% of the bills. This was ok until a year ago i found ou he was having an affair $ almost 2 years. Even though the affair is over issues were never resolved.Now I need help but they cant seem to realize it. The more I try to talk about the situation tne more he shuns away. Any answers?What would you do if you're trying your best to be supportive of your spouse but things aren't working out?
yea heres your answer -leave the ******!!!


he has the balls to cheat on you while your keeping a roof over his head!


kick his sorry *** out now before he cheats on you again.What would you do if you're trying your best to be supportive of your spouse but things aren't working out?
4 years...you need to wake up and walk away
Talk or Walk ...thats what I would tell him.You deserve some closer.Otherwise you will never let it go
I'm there...my strongest


defense is prayer
OMG! This is the funniest question EVER!!!





It's also pointless cause yer not gonna do anything anyway. Your paying his bills and he's having an affair AND want to talk about it?





Get your tubes tied.
I really hate to say this but you might want to consider counseling or leaving him. He has a lot of growing up to do.
In a situation like this, you may want to consider letting him know how serious this situation is and that it's put the both of you in a really bad spot. If he's nothing taking you seriously with any of it after that, it's time to move on. He sounds immature and selfish, which isn't good in any relationship.