How to control your smile when you are fighting with spouse?

when there is a problem, my husband and i get into argument or fight depending on the situation, while we are arguing over a serious matter, he smiles at me and fights or argues so then i end up smiling back . and then we end up laughing. i am not able to fight back properly and solve the problem . how not to give up so quickly?How to control your smile when you are fighting with spouse?
Why would you want to continue an argument? You have issues and it sounds like your so mad at him that until you say everything you want to say to him you will never be happy. My ex-wife was the same way. She would drill me but I would not respond or would tell her until she cooled down I would not be part of the argument. We can as adults sit down and discuss and not argue because at some point in time you will loose respect for one another and that will complicate matters in the long run. It's not health to want to argue just so you can feel better because the argument is not really about the disagreement but rather about your release. You say you can't argue properly which in turn can not resolve the problem. You have that mixed up, arguing never solves anything, it creates new ones. Only by communicating can one effectively solve and correct problems. That is what you need to do with him. Sit down and tell him what it is that is really bothering you. Communicate not altercate.How to control your smile when you are fighting with spouse?
My husband and i do the same thing. I get mad when he makes me smile because i want to be mad. At least that is what i thought. i really just want him to listen and understand why i am mad. You should be happy that your fights end this way. They could end with you both being very angry. If you can both smile then the fight must not have been that important. when you both calm down talk about it. I don't think there is a proper way to fight but there is a proper way to express yourself. Tell him how you feel in a nice way but make sure he knows you are serious. You two smile at each other because you love each other. Be happy about that. It could be a whole lot worse.
this happens to us to and it's a good thing because then we stop and start talking and resolve the problem. i have even went so far as to tell him that i think he should stop smiling at me because i want to be mad at him but it never works
why do you want to continue fighting? You're blessed that your fights turn into laughter - do you want them to continue for days?
just handcuff him to the bed and tell him you're the boss now! ;-)
don't give up just give in. trust me if you are still with this guy this won't be a problem 5 years from now. enjoy it while it lasts
Wow, if you are laughing it must not be that big of a deal. Work off that tension more productive ways to your relationship...wink wink.
I wish that would happen with me, count it a blessing that this happen with you.
Is the problem that your trying to solve is who is right or who is wrong
It's good that you smile. Don't lose that.
thats a good thing. a real tension breaker.
stop complaining and have make up sex
that's funny..you go girl